The Attention Deficit Disorder Thread

Ehhh... sort of. It has been getting more and more serious... I mean, she has an overnight pack now at my place. :|

For me, the "gray area" is the place where I really don't know if I want to continue pursuing or if I/we need to back off... we pretty much see each other everyday and she's not dating anyone else. I'm pretty sure she's waiting for me to decide whether I'm going to stop dating other women.

How is it different over there, btw? I mean, besides the ceremonial pagan rites that involve Celtic chanting and goat's blood? :saevil:

 

Well, if you sleep with someone on a regular basis you are in a relationship with them, unless otherwise discussed before. If you make it clear that you just want casual sex with no strings attached, it's not what we call dating, or a relationship.

 

Then on the other hand, we're less likely to expect a relationship leading to marriage or moving in together. It's just the "exclusive dating" part starts pretty much right away.

 

Although what the fuck do I know, maybe all of that has changed here already.

 

Oh... that's not so different. At least to me.

We pretty much started as "friends with benefits", but it's gotten a little bit more serious as we hung out more often and longer... I think she's gotten too comfortable with me. :|

Whatevers - I try not to think about it too much and let what may happen, happen. I'm pretty Zen like that.

back in a moment, checking on the bread.

 

Yay B. all alone
Rambling silliness de luxe
No one listening

 

Bread is almost done
Smells of banana and rum
Yay flash your boobies. :boobies:

 

See, that's what I don't get, you talk like she is an octopus latching on to you and you're just passively letting it happen, then when she thinks you have a nice, mellow, serious relationship going, you still go out and date other women?

 

Yeah, i know mixed signals.

To be fair, we've both have gone out with other people... but she stopped dating other guys (so far as I know and from what she's told me) in the past month or so. She knows that I might be seeing other girls - I haven't lately cuz of work and all the stuff life has thrown at me for the past few weeks...

yeah, like I said - "gray area". Not sure exactly what to do - most of the time, I don't feel like I want to get into a serious "exclusive" relationship... another part of me wants to explore the possibilities.

I dunno, i guess I'm an asshole, huh, Yay? :mrgreen:

 

Nah. You're just a man.

I think as long as she knows that you might still see other girls, it's all good. Her choice.

 

HA, that's wishful thinking... even if she knows, reasonable logic often gets cast aside to raw emotion. Like I said, I just go with the flow, bro.

Back in a few minutes... BREAD IS DONE!

 

I hope you won't get a dose of her raw emotion any time soon.

I want mokko's bread
So badly, it is hurting.
My drool spills over.

 

How to describe this
Sweet, warm, fluffy, tangy
I think I'm horny.

yeah well, I've seen her during those PMS days - she's more annoying than scary.

 

*In a heavily Garlic Laden Voice*

Hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii Yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
Hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii Mokkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkooooooooooooooo

How have you been?...... friends with benefits Its just the honey to get you in

 

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g'day furbs :hi: Been awhile my brother from down under.

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What?

 

I told you, no swallowing today furby.

 

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I'm looking forward to another lengthy discussion of our genitals.

I'm looking forward to another verbal exploration of our erogenous zones.

What sounds better?